Here is a list of problems that can indicate that your child is up to something. it could be a lot of different problems, so just be sure to keep an open mind. Children, especially adolescents, give off many of these signals when they are distressed in other ways, too. You'll need to sort out with your child exactly what the problem is, and try to identify any substance abuse, perhaps with the help of a family counselor or child psychologist. Keep in mind that even if there is no drug abuse going on yet, these other problems need to be addressed.
1. Increased truancy and tardiness to classes2. A drop in grades
3. Behavior problems in school
4. Losing interest in activities the child once enjoyed
5. Dropping old friends and a sudden influence of a new crowd
6. Personality changes -- a child who was once outgoing is now withdrawn, or someone who is usually relaxed is now fidgety much of the time
7. Sudden mood changes -- euphoria followed by tenseness or edginess; excessive suspiciousness or paranoia
8. Appearing listless or hung over
9. Increased forgetfulness
10. Increased secretiveness
11. Withdrawal from the family
12. More combativeness at home
13. Red eye
14. Weight loss
15. Not sleeping well
16. Fatigue or hyperactivity
My wife found these somewhere on the internet I dont know the site tough.
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I have a 16 yr. old that has astounded judges,doctors,therapists,police,teachers,and myself.I paid attention to those signs,but its not enough anymore.I wanted to believe her,not myself.Mostkids wont be honest about the hard questions-please go out and find the answers from people in thier circle.My daughter has almost died 4 times,she's been locked up in juvie,and placed in rehab for 7months.Every day is a struggle,justdont ever let go
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